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Posted by thecanvasgrey on May 6, 2008
I don’t pretend to be a doctor or anyone who knows all about things. I do know one thing that bothers me about some doctors who try to break us down into systems or machines. As if that is ALL we are as humans. As if we can eventually explain everything in the human body (or the universe) in the same terms as a machine or a systematic number equation to the finite.
When we decide to think that we know everything about how the brain, chemicals, genes, etc. relate to one another I wonder what we will use as the “model” machine? And exactly which mechanic will you trust to give you a tune up? What constitutes the tune up? Maybe the sci-fi movies aren’t so far from reality if doctors think they really know it already. We need the differences that we’ve developed.
Don’t we NEED differences so that the things I’m not good at doing, someone else can do and vice versa.
This is one small reason why I struggle about telling our story. I really don’t see us as any different than any one else in life. I love my son just as he is, I see my job as helping him to learn coping skills as opposed to changing him or his wonderful mind. Most of the time my son is one of the happiest kids I’ve had the pleasure to be around.
I’d written the previous before today (5-6-8). I’m having difficulty sharing which is completely foreign to me. But today I was blessed with a beautiful sight. I had to share.
As I walked to the school to register my son I saw five smiling, flapping boys come out of the building, one skipped, two others were talking in excited tones, one making happy sounds, another running toward the field. I saw a tall slender man walking quickly behind them. I smiled. I smiled wide and long and looked at them; feeling their happiness, feeling their freedom, feeling their joy at experiencing the day and a break from school work. I thought of the teacher, the joy this can bring him too or the concern it could give as to later in the day lessons. How blessed is this world for ALL these humans? How blessed that they get to know the joy of the day? How blessed I was to get to experience this joy from afar but with them?
Thank God for the students, thank God for the teacher, thank God for the day, thank God for humans.
Like Humans Do by David Byrne: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bzmZXYKmTt0&feature=related
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Posted by thecanvasgrey on April 30, 2008
I invite you to read about our journey and learning experiences in hopes that it will help you or loved ones find themselves in similar situations. I hope and pray that you find comfort, peace and the positive aspects that Living with a Difference intends. I hope you I can tickle your funny bone along the way too!
I’ll be making the individual posts and then copy them here for the sake of continuity.
Posting this for our love of God, standing in faith, praying this reaches those that need and seek His love and peace.
Sometimes it is hard to know where to begin, so why not begin with the beginning!
The cast of characters: My husband is Hungry Hubby, Big Boy is my oldest son, Young Son is yep and me, I’m Wailing Woman. For more on how these names came about, click here.
LIVING WITH A DIFFERENCE – PEEING ON A STICK!
Peeing on a stick, how complicated could that be? Well for one, I can’t quite pee the way the stick chick in the illustration does it. Her stream looks to be one foot long and steady as she goes… mine…not so much.
I first try my normal position with my legs at the ten and two position but that produces a shower. So I rise to my gas station commando stance but I’ve already relieved too much and I’m chasing the small bursts with the stick until it seems completely wet. Well that experience sure didn’t seem to be clear, it wasn’t blue nor was it easy.
What? Negative. No, I just knew I was pregnant. I felt it. So I got a cup and peed into it (much easier for me) and dipped the second stick (the double pack was on sale). J Apparently the first stick didn’t get soaked with the hormone because this time it was CLEAR…I was pregnant!!!!!!
Hungry Husband and I can’t keep secrets very well. Especially when the news is good so we drove to my parent’s house and then to his mom’s house spreading the glorious news. After two years of trying we were going to have our first child.
I felt pretty healthy during my pregnancy. We got up nearly every week day and walked one to three miles before work. I had quit smoking and popped the prenatals. We continued to compete in CW dance competitions until I was at the fifth month. At 39, I still felt WAS young even though I was officially in the “at risk” zone of having a child. I enjoyed the pregnancy and marveled how my body changed. The doctor gave me a leave of absence five weeks before my due date because of swelling but apparently I didn’t have preeclampsia.
Fast forward two weeks, my water breaks, emergency C section because he was big and breach. “I see a boy butt,” the nurse exclaimed. We were elated! We missed the low Apgar numbers being tossed across the room. But the numbers were always going up and eventually everyone was happy. He peed on one nurse and she jokingly lamented about being peed on. She even wrote about it on the Apgar card (a souvenir). Aren’t we the lucky ones, to know he took his first whiz at 11:04 pm on his birthday!?!?! Now HE would be showing ME how to pee in a stream and hit the target!
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Posted by thecanvasgrey on April 25, 2008
THE CHURCH OF OPRAH
If you haven’t seen this yet, it is worth a peek.
I’m going to discuss the content of what Oprah and Tolle are talking about and the “new age” religion (and that is what it will become despite other intentions).
People who do so well for themselves in “this world” terms have a very difficult time dealing with it. Winfrey has looked to Tolle (for now) because he is telling her what she wants to hear or believe…or feel (whatever term they want to use).
It is difficult for people like Tolle and Winfrey to imagine that this in itself is ideology and easily could produce a “religion.” They are searching and believe they’ve found the “answer” to it all.
My questions; What if an inner spirit wants to be negative, hurt people, hurt the people who support the church of Oprah for example. Is that okay if the inner self wants to do negative works or negative things? This is where it comes back to “I Universe” junk or new age “that I am in control of everything around me” and in my life. WHAT?
I’m sure we don’t all believe the same even if we all went to the same church, synagogue, temple, mosque, cathedral, etc. Since we all have free-will and make a choice to either listen or ignore God then YES, we do make our own beds in many ways; however one cannot control the missed path of another who decides to drink and then drive their vehicle into an innocent. THAT certainly didn’t get planned in most days; it is a consequence of an action.
Which brings me to something else…we are NOT machines. It seems that scientists, physicists, mathematicians, even some physicians try to break humans down into these systematic beings. Some I’ve heard think at some point we will be able to describe and explain everything through math and physics. HAAAAAAAA! Got to laugh at that one. Because just when they get things so figured out…BAM! They discover something they never saw or considered before.
I’m all for trying to understand things and learning, discovering with awe and wonder, not with pompous, self-important, effacing purpose.
The truth is no one knows. We believe we know, we feel we know, we think we know, we have faith but we don’t know.
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Posted by thecanvasgrey on April 17, 2008
First, thanks to all of you who’ve been keeping us in your thoughts and prayers. I really feel them in my heart and soul. THANK YOU for them. I really do sit in thoughtful prayer for you as well. I’m a big giver so when I receive I tend to give back even more. Your continued thoughts and prayers of support are very appreciated. As we know more of the details I’ll share them. Right now we are in a holding pattern but circling the airport. ha!
I have several things that are pressing, several things that must come out, I’m compelled.
I’ve done a dozen or so posts on autism. I think highly of so many bloggers who are autistic or parents of autistic children. I respect them, their view of things, their frustration of things, their joy of things, their need to help others understand, agree, being able to learn and grow. Just knowing how nice it is to reach out to each other when needed is a wonderful thing.
In this age of “bi-polar-isms” I refuse to define my precious, sweet son by autism, nor will I. He is smart, loving, handsome like his dad (of course), very tall, a reader, into astrology, a thinker, a dreamer, he hums happy tunes, still likes to skip (me too…like Phoebe from friends), likes routine (like his dad), sounds just like his brother (vice-versa) when he talks, has an amazing memory, adores his third grade teacher, can easily entertain himself, becomes deeply involved with things he enjoys, can’t concentrate on things he doesn’t and more, more, more.
So what am I getting at??? I’ve been holding my son’s story close (odd because I share so easily) but I’m nervous it will define him. Or WORSE, that HE thinks that is how I define HIM.
God has been pushing gently at me from many directions and I had my AHA moment this morning, NO FEAR. I now know I’m to post it, I’m compelled to post it. In faith I will post it and pray that it reaches those that it is supposed to reach and help. In faith I will post it believing that my son will KNOW that autism is only a small sliver of who he is, something to help him in his life’s journey and that I love him more than words. Amen. Thank you God for love, mercy, all things seen and unseen.
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Posted by thecanvasgrey on April 16, 2008
I just found a new favorite place! Post was changed…so it isn’t your eyes, it was me.
Okay, I admit it….I didn’t scroll down far enough or look hard enough…ick.
I saw some Coexist stickers and “Ask your doctor if medical advise from a TV is right for you.”
That one got my attention and funny bone.
I had no idea of the political slant at the bottom
I still love the thought of being a peacemonger.
Just not from that direction.
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Posted by thecanvasgrey on April 3, 2008
Everything has happened so fast that my head is spinning. Hungry Hubby is up for a job that would spread happiness throughout our friends, family and of course, us too.
Please say a prayer, thought, send a positive vibe our way over this next week.
In thankfulness to all, Debi
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Posted by thecanvasgrey on April 1, 2008
This award when given to someone from me will come with no strings attached to do anything but know that I appreciate them, I’m thankful for them, and I think they are pretty darn special. Once given it can be shared or held close, posted or not because it is simply my way of saying thank you for being who you are and doing what you do.
Mere, this award has in part been inspired by you so you will be the first to receive it! You touch my heart with your love of family, commitment, boundless energy, compassion and openness.
To Ms. Mercedes the HUGE HEART AWARD!
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Posted by thecanvasgrey on March 18, 2008
I believe that life should be about what we CAN do. After all not everyone can run a race much less win it. Not everyone can focus for long periods of time to solve/work on the theories of time and space and how we can invent a worm hole. Nor are most of us able (in my case willing) to strut themselves among the red carpet/reality crowd (ick).
So in my corner of the world I am about what we are ABLE to do. Figuring out the big picture for our lives, sifting in desires, gifts, love, passion, responsibility, compassion, abilities, education, understanding, desired outcome and more. Then placing the pieces in order, minute by minute, day by day, week by week, year by year so that at some point we can see a masterpiece taking shape before us. Our lives…what we are capable of doing throughout the course of a lifetime.
I’m proud of both my kids. I think they are worth every minute of thought, work, effort, joy, heartache, sweat, tears, planning, change of plans, money, time, all of it…they are worth it all.
Sometimes there are moments of unexplained, unexpected, unknown gifts displayed before me and I am in awe. This is an example of that wonder and surprise from Big Boy last year at the age of eight.
He titled it “DRAGON”
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Posted by thecanvasgrey on March 17, 2008
Not just because it is St. Paddy’s Day…but by the by, Happy St. Patrick’s Day to you!
More importantly several things have happened of late that deem a celebration!
Big Boy (who is autistic) has had several leaps forward in a row!
He has learned to cope with the fire alarm sound (the latest one was his 3rd without problems). Yippee!
Last week he turned to READ MY FACE after something I said to see if I was joking or serious. HUGE!
He got a joke that involved a play on words!!!!!
Lastly, he and Young Son landed a Mario and Luigi stuffed toy (with help from Hungry Hubby) in one of their favorite games, Skeeball.
GOD, thank you…. I am so truly blessed!
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Posted by thecanvasgrey on March 12, 2008
I’ve come across another blog via Angie’s blog named WomanHonorThyself. Today, she made excellent observations about how downtrodden and depressed so many women are these days.
As it fizzled in my brain I thought and commented:
It is hard to admit that we women don’t honor ourselves. But is it easy to see when the evidence is pointed out so clearly.
I remember a commercial that defined/predicted the onslaught of depression in women:
“I can bring home the bacon, fry it up in a pan, and never let you forget you’re a man. Cause I’m a woman!”
This is expected of us. Latch-key kids weren’t included in that song…who the heck is raising the kids?
Our society has been hypnotised by commercial personas that led/lead us to believe/desire what is dangled out in front of us as the “carrot” of life. The essense of life is to have what the commercials tell us to have because it makes everyone so happy to have it.
We can turn just about anything from one perspective to another making it sound so terrible or so great. But the truth is the truth.
NO ONE… NO ONE… NO ONE has it ALL. There are some who would argue that statement. But deep down we all know the TRUTH.
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Posted by thecanvasgrey on March 10, 2008
Or does any one key fit anyone? Are brain problems just neuro related or are they psycho related or a mixture of both? How much of the environment plays into it? The things we eat, drink, amount of exercise, fresh air, good and bad bacteria, inside, outside, upside down…it makes my head spin. One thing is for sure, we, as humans, are in our infancy when learning about just one area and much less than our infancy as to how they intertwine, relate and what they need from each other to function in a healthy way.
But just for fun this site has some interesting tests for your brain.
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Posted by thecanvasgrey on March 4, 2008
well, pat myself on the back…well, let someone else pat me on the back and then pass it on cause if feels so darn good that everyone should do it.
But first a pause for the cause….this important break for the brainiac in me… some appreciation and thought.
There are so many bloggers that make me think,
make me stretch,
make me realize that we all have similar thoughts,
that we are all human.
That maybe the most wonderful part of humanity is reaching out to each other. That on a broader scale we are more alike than different. We are diverse but the same.
We are born, we live and we die.
A complete circle.
Circles seem to be significant. God scattered lots of circles around.
What significance must circles be?
Okay, too deep for today….so on with the award!
I was bestowed by Maddy, whom I hold in high regard for more than a couple of reasons (she’s my Wonder Woman link), the ROYAL BANANA award, I slip you not!!!!
She thinks my blog is yummy!!!! The feeling is mutual!
I’m going to pass this on to my entire blog roll (see right column under Brain Waves) of blogging buddies that have yummy blogs to me. Please add these as you can if you want to your blogs!
Have a wonderful day (24 hour cycle, you know that circle thing). Ta Ta!
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Posted by thecanvasgrey on February 23, 2008
I have a friend who is into astrology (love you girl) and she tells me from time to time what the planets have in mind for me. I have to say that I’ve been very impressed with the information she’s given me over the last year or so. We talked recently and the news from her wasn’t what I’d hoped for as to the alignment of “my” planets. Suffice it to say that it seems as though my state of affairs will continue in a “not so great cycle” until next year. Great! When I was so full of hope and looking brightly into 2008 as the year of reclaiming myself!
Well then, maybe I’ll tempt the planets and choose for 2008 to be great as I concentrate on the great things I already have instead of letting the planets kick my ass for another year.
Really…how can things be so bad as long as I’m alive, relatively healthy and have my family? Sure some things come along now and then and I “give-in” to a day on the couch or an afternoon nap. But really…what are a few days of being Debbie Downer when I know she will dissipate quickly and easily and hopefully for GOOD when 2009 rolls around? I am human after all, right? Yes, I’m human! 😉
I’ve been on a quest, looking to find my next career path. What would God have me do? I worked for over 20 years in finance and HR so I relished the chance to make a major career change nine years ago and DIY at home with the kids. The chance to instill the love of learning in my preschool aged kids. I’ve had nothing but pleasure in helping them learn to read and write well above age level while stirring their souls with music, art and imagination. I believe I’ve given a great gift to them, their future teachers as well as myself. They have a true love of learning, it is my prayer that it will translate and continue! I’m sure it will.
In the autumn of 2008 my youngest will embark on his formal education in kindergarten. I will be taking that next year to discover what God has in store for me as I begin the search for my third career. While waiting and listening I’m engaged with my family and their happenings, on the PTA committee, scrap-booking memories for my family, eBaying occasionally and blogging for myself. My purpose of blogging is to stir my soul, express myself in writing and create a history of thought to leave for my kids and their kids and so on.
God has been giving me hints as to what is next along the way. I’ve been patient, I’m listening. What have I been hearing and understanding? To start out small and let it grow. No “big splash” or fancy diving that produces big ripples that quickly land on the shore. Instead start from the shallows, learn to swim and then you can be steady and confident as you swim the unimaginable lengths before you.
Thank you God! Thank you! I wonder what beauty is around that bend.
Photos by Kobster & JBurton
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Posted by thecanvasgrey on February 18, 2008
In 2006 we’d removed a VERY old tree in the back yard. We wondered and wondered how we would remove the stump. We just left it there eventually putting some potted plants on it. Within a year it started to decay and last Fall my husband removed it completely with VERY little effort.
So when an email came to me recently (thanks Shawna) it had something about “plowing around the stump” and it really settled in with me. I’ve always been the jump in and get it done now person. Work before play, work hard then play hard kinda person. Ya know the person that can’t rest until the stump is out, roots and all.
So I’m trying to adapt this “plow around the stump” into my life a bit more.
For example, I’m getting tired of going to the Y constantly to just maintain (losing is a lost cause…for now) my weight. Especially through the cold and muck of winter (not to mention the flu going around). So as I’m learning to “plow around the stump” I abandoned our 1980 circa Super Nintendo, pushed my cheap, frugal self to the side and got a Wii to get us off our duffs while enjoying ourselves as a family. I also got the exercise trampoline…FUN!
My kids are finicky eaters so I’m constantly trying to find ways to get them to eat more variety. I’d be much happier if they would eat vegies raw or steamed but now that I’m to the point of disguising them by any means necessary. It doesn’t always work but when it does I’m dancing on the clouds that I found another healthy dish they will eat. Sometimes that means it comes from a frozen bag or from a can. Cooking two times a day, seven days a week is a stump I’m more than glad to abandon and plow around!
Inside verse outside play is a stump that is difficult for me to leave alone. Big Boy has so much anxiety about bugs that the only place he will play is open spaces with few flying insects. Young Son is all about adventure and the outdoors. This limits us to the yard since one is in and the other out unless I take them to the park (which I do). I feel guilty about the days of my childhood when we roamed the wilds. I’m sure that Mom got so many things done while we learned about freedom (to be more than a few feet from an adult), limitations (not to go too far away) and responsibility (come back at predetermined time, watch out for each other). But in my world, this isn’t possible. So I have to compromise, as tough as that is and think of other ways to do these things.
Finally the stump that has been the most difficult for me. Connecting with others. I’m naturally a very outgoing, giving person. I’ve connected with a few people since moving here eight plus years ago but to be honest, nothing lasting, nothing deep. All my close friends are physically far away. We only get to visit periodically. I’ve been praying for a direction, to imagine how I can remove this stump. This last weekend God revealed to me the reason why… WHY…which isn’t mine to know or question but He let me in on it all the same! How blessed am I that I now understand why I’ve been in a type of solitary confinement (girlfriend wise). I’ve been patient and He is showing me. I’m so thankful. So glad I’ve been patient (NOT EASY).
So now I’m happily plowing around this stump knowing that it isn’t moving…but I AM!
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Posted by thecanvasgrey on February 13, 2008
There is NOTHING more beautiful than people focusing on their gifts, talents, ABILITIES!
Please watch this video, you will NOT be disappointed!
Thanks Bev, for another amazing video.
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Posted by thecanvasgrey on February 12, 2008
Get everyone up off their bum and get one of these!
We happened to be at Wally World last week in the electronics department when the first shipment of Wiis in three weeks came in (talk about LUCK) and got the last one, they were gone in less than an hour. We got it for the rock bottom price of $249.99 (yes people are paying much more at eBay and Amazon.com). Even my frugal, cheap fanny couldn’t pass that up. We’ve been playing on my Super Nintendo from the 1980s. YES, kids, that’s how cheap I am. But I’m a Nintendo kid born and raised and Mario is my fav (okay I love Link too).
Long story short, if you have young ones who love gaming like we do, don’t hesitate and get one. I don’t know all the particulars but it hooks to your computer and you can download the old stuff. Plus you can play other people via the net. This is something I’ll have to figure out after I’m a pro or ace on everything. ;-0 The most important thing it does is get you off your bottom and into the game.
Wii comes with Sports which is fun! Of course I had to get Super Mario Galaxy as well. After huffing and puffing around on the Sports we sit and play Mario then back to huffing and puffing. The thing I love about Sports is you can play as actively or as passively as you would like (or can). So perfect for people who have young kids but aren’t so young anymore! AND I’ve discovered an old love again TENNIS!!!! I could play it all day long tho I don’t because of my kids, “MOM, I thought we were supposed to SHARE!”
Check out Hawty McBloggy, my Game Girl Rocks. Her blog has got tons of stuff about all types of gaming and also about Wii. Plus you can check out her contests too. She had a caption contest recently that made me bust a gut. Yes, I participated and got mentioned too…which is really cool! She has some very, very, very funny stuff on there so check it out when you think you’d like to move up or over to something different in your gaming sphere.
At any rate, this is part of my “plow around the stump” thinking for the new year. I’m not joining them because I can’t beat ’em. I’m moving around them to something that everyone can live with. So our love of computers and gaming transfers well to the Wii Sports. Now I feel like they are getting some activity during the winter months.
I play it HARD and just can’t beat Hungry Hubby who just bats at it hard and wins. I’m all over the floor but I win the exercise/hard working award! I’ve noticed we’ve had more energy this week. Our steps are lighter and our wind is longer…just image the tip top athletic condition we will all be in by Spring! ***wink, wink, nudge, nudge***
I’m not done with this ANY time soon! 😉
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Posted by thecanvasgrey on February 5, 2008
LOVE I nclusion F ellowship E quality
I’m a pupil of life.
Pupil as in learner AND pupil as in the center transparent, black part of an eye (I).
The cornerstone of my learning life is LOVE, for without it I am nothing. I exist, I am seen, I am because I love others and I am loved by others.
This is the perception of understanding that I insure through my persistance to love others through my inclusion and fellowship with all because they are equal to me through love.
Do you hear what I hear? Do you see what I see? Do you know what I know?
LOVE is the cornerstone.
I’m done now. 😉
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Posted by thecanvasgrey on January 31, 2008
THE GIRLS IN MY CIRCLE
When I was little,
I used to believe in the concept of one best friend,
and then I started to become a woman.
I found out that if you allow your heart to open up,
You will be shown the best, in many friends.
One friend is needed when you’re going through things with your partner.
Another friend when you’re going through things with your parents.
Another will sit beside you in the bleachers as you delight in your children.
Another when you want to shop, share, heal, hurt, joke, or just be.
One friend will say, “Let’s cry together,”
another, “Let’s fight together,”
another, “Let’s walk away together.” One friend will meet your spiritual need,
another your shoe fetish,
another your love for movies,
another will be with you in your season of confusion,
another will be your clarifier,
another the wind beneath your wings. But whatever their assignment in your life,
on whatever the occasion, on whatever the day,
or to hold you back from making a complete fool of yourself …
those are your best friends.
It may all be wrapped up in one woman,
but for many, it’s wrapped up in several…
one from junior high school,
one from the college years,
a couple from old jobs,
on some days your mother,
on some days your sister,
on others, your aunt, cousin or a neighbor,
and some days a blog buddy.
Thanks so ALL the GIRLS IN MY CIRCLE!
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Posted by thecanvasgrey on January 29, 2008
Well I can hardly pass up an award from a friend of mine now can I???
My friend and blogging buddy Mercedes at Mercedes World has bestowed upon me the following award:
Started by Colin
As part of this award, I gather, I must bestow it upon others and so I’d like to award a few of my favorite blogs:
Fighting Windmills for her commitment, thought and kindness to others!
Whitterer on Autism for her wit, wisdom and kind, kind heart!
Hawty McBloggy for her energy, fun and dedication to girls in gaming!
Mother of Shrek for teaching others to view things differently!
Teaching Tommy for sharing your adventure with Tommy!
Each of these women have shared something that has touched my brain, heart, spirit more than a time or two and I thank you ladies from the bottom of my heart!
That goes for you too Mercedes!!!!
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