Posted by thecanvasgrey on June 8, 2009
Please don’t be so hard on yourself, others aren’t (at least people that really matter)!
Most of us struggle with self-consciousness issues. We can’t let that stop us!
I could name several people (who aren’t so nice) that are successful and put themselves out there all the time on TV and film. And then there are really nice people who give uplifting information and try to help (aka Oprah, if that end of the spectrum helps).
Those who know us know what we look like and still like or love us for the people we ARE!
Look at everyone around you that speaks well of you. bending over backwards to do so at times. There is a large positive ripple effect there, why not be the stone that causes the ripple.
If all anyone cared about was what a person looked like then yikes, we’d all be like Hollywood…ick…what a depressing world that would be. Picking each other apart instead of building each other up or working together.
Focus and capitalize on your strengths and forget about (what you perceive as) weaknesses…everyone wins that way! Why? You win and the people around you win because you share with them your gifts instead of coddling them in self-consciousness.
Sending love and good thoughts, Debi
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Posted by thecanvasgrey on March 18, 2008
I believe that life should be about what we CAN do. After all not everyone can run a race much less win it. Not everyone can focus for long periods of time to solve/work on the theories of time and space and how we can invent a worm hole. Nor are most of us able (in my case willing) to strut themselves among the red carpet/reality crowd (ick).
So in my corner of the world I am about what we are ABLE to do. Figuring out the big picture for our lives, sifting in desires, gifts, love, passion, responsibility, compassion, abilities, education, understanding, desired outcome and more. Then placing the pieces in order, minute by minute, day by day, week by week, year by year so that at some point we can see a masterpiece taking shape before us. Our lives…what we are capable of doing throughout the course of a lifetime.
I’m proud of both my kids. I think they are worth every minute of thought, work, effort, joy, heartache, sweat, tears, planning, change of plans, money, time, all of it…they are worth it all.
Sometimes there are moments of unexplained, unexpected, unknown gifts displayed before me and I am in awe. This is an example of that wonder and surprise from Big Boy last year at the age of eight.
He titled it “DRAGON”
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